How long have you been together? 8 months
What is your age range? 20/25
Please share your story:
My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and everything was good in the beginning. Then, slowly, I started seeing how fast he got angry and how jealous he was. I thought it was cute until it started becoming a controlling issue. He started accusing my own brother of checking me out and how I must like it. My brothers and I are really close so we joke around and make fun of each other . But he is like obsessive and it scares me because I jut got out of a 9 year relationship with an abusive man and we had the same problems.
What should I do?
Is it me? I feel like I will never be happy..
Please help me! Should I continue in this relationship?
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